While I sat alone in church at my friend's memorial, I started thinking about life. I started thinking about my life and how I don't spend as much time with my friends. I started wondering why I lost connection with so many people, these are people that have been in my life so many years. I started to think about possible reasons until I realized that their shouldn't be any excuse as to why. I guess each individual grows differently as we age, we start liking different things, we pick up new hobbies, we listen to different music, we start working. But are all these differences a big enough reason to lose a connection with your friends? At the end of the day I realized that differences are just differences, its not a big enough reason to stop hanging out or calling those who were once your close friends. I'm making it my effort to regain some of those friendships. My success on regaining those friendships may be low but its definitely worth the try. So come on guys, put your pride and time to the side and pick up your phones or surprise them at home. Whats the worst that can happen, they don't pick up, they are not home, or they don't open the door(worst case scenario). Life is too short to lose a friend. I wish I can go back in time and spend more time with my friend, now that chance is gone. You have the chance to see them one last time, talk to them one last time, touch them one last time, don't let that chance slip away.(of course i am missing a lot of my friends in the pics, if your not in my picture list then it means the picture we took was before downloading was popular, haha)
