Not All Men Are Jerks

Some females spend their whole life catering to their significant other. She wakes up first thing in the morning and cooks an amazing breakfast. The nicest pat is that she cooks it for both herself and her partner. Yeah she could be selfish and cook something her partner doesn't really like, but just because she knows what he likes she will not cook what she really wanted to eat to make him happy. Sometimes he remembers to say thank you or sometimes he just says get me something to drink. The worst part of all of this, is the one week you don't manage to cook, then all of a sudden you never cook. First of all she is cooking whether its everyday or once a month, the point is that shes cooking. I sure don't see the man making any effort to cook anything. Most of the times he has this lame excuse that his mother always cooked when he lived back home and that's why he never learned how to cook. Now the part that really gets to me is the one day you catch him cooking or making himself something to eat and doesn't even bother to ask you if you wanted anything. What happened to not knowing how to cook? Why are men so selfish? Are they selfish, lazy or do they just not have a clue in the world?